Counselor’s Corner:
When our normal daily schedules and routines are changed and interrupted by a break from school, things can get a little chaotic at home. We might see some feelings and behaviors that leave us baffled. Here are a couple tips and reminders for making the most of this time together.
Stick to a schedule. While the routine of waking up, getting ready and going to school may not be the same, it’s still a good idea to keep some sort of a schedule during the time off. The consistency and predictability of meals and activities can alleviate anxiety for kids that have grown accustomed to structure.
Make a point to have fun. You don’t have to go to Disney World to make memories. Rising travel costs can add undue stress and a financial burden anyway. Check out some of the local staycation deals in your area and take advantage of fun day trips. A Northwest parent has an amazing blog (Mrs. Weber's Neighborhood) with all sorts of local opportunities.
Hang out with your neighbors, friends, and family. In light of everything going on in the world, kids are more desperate than ever for relationships and connections. Arrange playdates for your kids with their friends (click here for some tips). Fly in an out-of-town cousin that your kids don’t get to see very often - it is an easy way to create a special experience without spending too much money.
Take time for yourself. Take turns with your spouse or significant other during the evening hours when you’re both at home. Have a special “Dad’s Night” with the kids, while mom has a night out with the girls. Or have a fun “Mom’s Night,” while dad heads to catch the NCAA Final Four game with the boys. You could even take turns watching your family friend’s kids one night so they can return the favor and both families get a parents’ night out!
Just some thoughts - the most important thing is to just engage and enjoy your family.
Sarah Marker